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Hey, girls, it’s Emily. First of all, before I even start I’m very, very excited about the content of this article today. It’s something brand new and I feel that this concept, which I’ve never said before, is something I’m going to say for the next decade if not my whole life in my coaching. At the end of this post, there will be a special announcement. Read right to the end of this post so that you do not miss it. Okay, I want to get down to it. One of the biggest issues that I believe women experience with men is how to communicate and get their standards across to a guy.
The first problem for a lot of women is they don’t know what their standards are. They’ve never really articulated to themselves “what is ok and what is not ok for a guy to do around me”. ”What am I looking for?” “What kind of treatment do I expect?” and even if they know what those standards are “How do I actually communicate these standards to a guy in a way that doesn’t make me seem like a nag, too stubborn, high maintenance…”? Am I going to come across as aggressive?” off course people also have that fear of confrontation. “I might not like what he just did but I don’t want to confront him because I don’t want to create friction or awkwardness”.
Many people wouldn’t admit this out loud but it’s the reality. Communicating standards can be a difficult thing. The sad part is communicating your standards is one of the most attractive things you can do. If you know how to do that you can get a guy attracted on a completely different level than other women can. So, if you’re avoiding communicating your standards, If your tendency is just to be passive, to hide the way you feel or just to put your guard up and distance yourself from a guy so that he can’t hurt you but at the same time he doesn’t really understand, you’re missing out on a really amazing opportunity to influence guys and create attraction.
So, how do you communicate your standard to a guy? Let’s say a guy, at the end of a first date, says “do you want to come home with me?” or however he says it. Guys each have their own special way of saying this. How do you deal with this question in a way that articulates your standard but doesn’t create unnecessary friction or make things awkward between you? I’ve thought about two types of women that get this wrong. One type of woman that gets it wrong is the woman who is overly aggressive. She’s the one who, when he says it, she says “are you kidding me? You think I would come back to your house after one date?”
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That’s the woman that creates confrontation, bruises his ego and makes him feel like he doesn’t want to take any chances with her again. Then there’s the woman who’s kind of a little too sweet. She’s too passive. Now she may go one of two directions. She might say to him… she might make excuses and say “you know what I have so much work to do in the morning I have to get up early so I can’t but hopefully, I’ll maybe see you later this week”. So he never really knows that it was too fast-paced for her. All he knows is she made an excuse whether it was legitimate or not he doesn’t know but he doesn’t know what her standard is.
The other type of sweet person or passive person goes home with him even though it’s not her pace to go home with someone that quickly, she does it because she doesn’t want to create confrontation and she doesn’t want to make things awkward and she likes him so she thinks “I do like him and I do want to be close to him” so she goes back to his apartment maybe she has sex with him maybe she doesn’t but she gets taken into a situation that she doesn’t want to be in. So neither of these work very effectively.
One communicated standards but doesn’t create any excitement for the guy, the aggressive woman, she shows her standard but she doesn’t necessarily get excitement and continue the tension in a good way. She creates bad tension. The woman who’s too sweet, she doesn’t create any sense of respect.
Now there’s a concept in the food industry. When they’re manufacturing food they’re looking for the optimal ratio of salt and sweet that stops you from being satiated, that stops you from being full, that keeps you wanting more to the point where, in food, is what makes you overeat because you eat something and it’s got that exact right level which they have measured, they know. It’s got that exact right level and then you go “I want another one, just one more. I want another one. I want another one…” and you keep eating and you don’t lose your appetite because it’s the optimal level. It’s called the bliss point. The bliss point applies perfectly to communication with men. We are always looking for the bliss point in communication.
What is the optimal level of salty and sweet when you communicate your standard? In our example above, the woman who was overly aggressive, a little too salty right? Didn’t create any excitement, didn’t create any more desire, just created tension in a bad way, not the good tension. The one who was too sweet didn’t show any standards, she wasn’t salty enough. So now shes just blah, at the end of it he’s going to get bored with her because she doesn’t have standards it seems and he doesn’t end up respecting her and that means he gets less attracted.
There is a woman who, in this situation, achieves the bliss point. She’s the woman who says to the guy “you know what? There’s a part of me that would love to because you’re super attractive but it’s not my style to move that quickly, I don’t move that fast but if you want to take me out later this week or next week I’d love that” Ok I’m going to repeat that cause I want you to watch what happens in each step. There are three steps to this.
One: “You know what? There’s a part of me that would love to go back with you because I think you’re really attractive.”
Two: “but that’s just not my style, I don’t move that quickly”
Three: “If you want to go out this week or next week however I’d love that. That would be really cool.”
Now these three things… What you’ve done is you’ve started by showing attraction “There’s a part of me that would love to go back with you because I think you’re super attractive” There you create all of these… this tension in a good way, these fireworks, these sparks, this desire, he’s like “oh my god she wants me” but part two: “I’m telling you my standard. I don’t move that fast. That’s not my style. I just don’t move that quickly” He hears your standard now and then lastly you open the door for him to step up his game. So you say “but if you want to do something this week or next, I’d love that, that would be cool” This is the bliss point.
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This is the woman who’s got the optimal level of salty and sweet, that makes a guy want more, That stops a guy from being satiated, that makes him think “I need another one” In this case it’s another date “I need to see her again” because she achieved the bliss point. I’m not going to lie. When I was sitting there and this thing clicked for me, this idea of the bliss point, it might be one of the most exciting concepts that I’ve come across and thought about for attraction and human dynamics in general in a very, very long time. So, my question to you is firstly doing you find that example useful? Because if you did I have many, many, many more that I have been working on for you to use.
When I come up with almost a neat little trick, a neat little turn of phrase, something you can actually say in the moment that can get you the result women will use that and see that it works and come back to me and say “Do you have something I can say for this situation?” and “a guy just said this” or “a guy just did this”, “what do I do in all of these different situations?” in other words for everyone that I solve it’s like ten more spring up.
I'll never have time in this post to be able to cover them all It’s just… It hasn’t been possible. It’s like cutting the head off the beast and three more grow So, I have been working on a brand new program that is very different from the other things that I have done, different in this way: I thought to myself you know what? There are many different scenarios where women want to know the exact thing to say and do.
They don’t want just physiology, they don’t just want a concept because people hear the concept and then say “ok I get the concept so now what do I do?” It’s easy to say “You have to sound confident when you talk to guys” that’s easy, it’s easy to say “you know it’s important sometime to not sound like you’re too desperate with guys” that’s easy, That’s all like just philosophy.
Actually then saying “how does that translate into what you say? How does that translate into a turn of phrase? What are the things that you should say to trigger a guy’s attraction? And how can you say them in this situation and this one and this one?” That’s why this program has taken me so @#$$@ long. I wanted to create something where we took out all of the filler, all of the explanation and just said now we’re just going to give you the juice.
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We’re just going to give you what you can say in all of these different scenarios. Last week I talked about it as the scripts right? This Idea of “you know what? There are certain scripts in dating and in relationships that just get the result. I feel confident that this is the most valuable program I’ve ever created. I will go as far as to say the “Get the guy” book pales in comparison to what I have created here that I am about to reveal to you, and I don’t say that lightly because I’m proud of this book, it’s my baby. I put my heart and soul into it when I created it. It was a New York Times bestseller, over 800 reviews on Amazon. It’s 4 and a half stars in Amazon. I think it has 80% 5-star reviews and I know that people who read the “Get the guy” book, the most common comment was this “I love the book I just want more examples of how to use it. I want more examples of things I can actually say to guys”.
That’s what this is all in one place with all of the fluff cut out and just the examples so that you can go and get the results immediately and it’s quick. That’s why I believe it’s the most valuable thing I’ve ever done because it literally gives it to you on a plate.
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The Best Things To Say That Make A Man Fall Head Over Heels For You
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I'm going to teach you three ways to complement a guy to make him fall for you and read all the way to the end because I have something very special waiting for you that you do not want to miss.
The first way to complement a guy is in his style. Many people when they are walking up to someone, think about how to complement their looks; you have a great smile, you have beautiful eyes, all of those kinds of things. Not only is this a very direct way to go and approach someone, one that most of us are scared to do, but it is also as complimenting someone on something they didn’t choose, none of us chose our looks, but we did choose our style. When you go u to a guy and say I love those jeans or those shoes are so cool, not only is it safer and less direct; it’s actually more meaningful.
The second way to complement a guy is to talk about his hidden traits. Let's say a guy is good at a guitar, he's probably been complemented on that a woeful lot, so when he goes and plays and everyone comes up to him and says oh my God you are so good, you're amazing at that, it loses its meaning after a while. Now when you compliment a guy on that thing, you're just like everybody else, but if you can complement the trait that made him go to the guitar in the first place, he will be much more sentimental about that. If it’s just the discipline to keep playing every single day, even when it was hard to get to that point, that something is more likely to have meaningful than just being good at the guitar.
The third way to complement a guy that makes him fall for you and I cannot overstate the importance of this; play to his masculinity, show him how much of a man you really think he is. If a guy feels like a guy around you, he'll want to be around you more. There is one amazing line that you can use to do this and if you like this line, you're going to love what I give you in a few seconds. You say to a man ”I feel so safe whenever I’m around you”, just saying that to a guy makes him feel like Superman, but most specifically it makes him feel like Superman with you. Not everyone makes him feel that way, so if he feels that powerful with you, he's going to be drawn to you. If you like this, I have a special surprise for you.
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Women Wish Men Knew These 5 Things
Hey guys, it’s me Alexa one of the best dating expert for men, and today we’re going to do some myth busting! I’m going to give you five myths that a lot of men believe are true, and after we do this myth busting hopefully you’ll get a clearer insight into the female mind.
Myth number one: hot women are harder to get.
In your mind, they are – you’ve created that, you've created that belief. You've presumed that because she’s hot, she’s going to go for men who are equally as hot or who are very, very successful. Or she’s going to be very, very bitchy – she’s going to really put you down, in fact she’s going to laugh in your face the moment you approach her.
I have a lot of beautiful female friends – we’re talking really outstanding, high grade quality here, and equally I have some less attractive friends, physically less attractive – beautiful personalities, lots of confidence – but, they’re not aesthetically what most people would consider as hot. And guess who gets approached most? Yes – it’s going to be the mediocre girls, because all the guys are thinking the same thing, they’re thinking, “I won’t go for the really hot friend, I’ll go for the one that’s just a little bit shorter, a little more friendly-looking.”
They’ve convinced themselves that the girl next door is going to be like the girl next door, super friendly and up for it.
“I’m going to go for her instead.”
So what happens is a lot of very stunning women out there are not approached – they’re looked at, people stare at them, but people don’t approach them. And they've got a lot of issues, they think maybe I’m not pretty enough; all my other friends who don’t model, who don’t get looked at as much are getting approached more, and maybe I’m not that attractive, maybe there is something wrong with me.
So I want you to just expel completely this myth that hot women are more difficult to get. It’s not true. I’m telling you, this is not true.
They get approached a lot less, so they’re actually quite a lot less cocky, they can be a lot less abrasive than mediocre girls; but more importantly, I want you to look at the reasons for why you hold this belief. It’s probably a way for you to stop approaching beautiful women, it’s an excuse. We create a lot of things, we say, “This person looks like they’re in a bad mood, this person looks like we’ve got nothing in common, this person looks like they’ve got a boyfriend, this person looks like they’re too intelligent/they’re not intelligent enough.”
We find a range, we’re very good at this, finding excuses – very, very good; and we find a range of different excuses, but I want you to use the fact that she’s beautiful as fuel. Use it to galvanize, to fuel your desire to go and speak to her, not to fill your head with excuses and limitations.
Myth two: women go for wealthy guys.
Ok, I’m going to urge you to watch my video about this, I did a whole video on wealthy, successful guys and how they don’t actually attract that many women. I’ll be brief for this point but you do have to watch that video if you want to get a little bit more clarity on it.
Women are trying to ascertain confidence and strength – strength of character, they’re also trying to see if the guy is unapologetic for his actions, his goals, she wants consistency – which a lot of wealthy men don’t possess –and she wants certainty.
So they are the four core values that women are trying to ascertain when in an interaction with a guy, not wealth. Wealth is usually indicative of success, success is usually indicative of confidence – so it’s a presumption that the guy’s confident, but if he is not showing confidence 5 or 10 minutes into the interaction its game over for him too. Watch that video if you want more information about that.
Myth number three: we will go for our type, we will ultimately go for our type, because that is what we are programmed to do.
Not true. If you look at my past boyfriends, if you line them up – you’ll notice there’s not much consistency between them, you wouldn’t be able to say, “Ah – I see a kind of type here.”
Not at all. Some of them were very successful, some were very unsuccessful, some were very hot, some were not so hot, some were tall, some were shorter – there’s no consistency. What they did all have though, was something called ‘game’, and actually that gave me inspiration for my book which was published in 2010 – I looked at what all these guys did, and I worked out that they all ran a form of ‘game’ and that it could be copied and pasted – it could be applied, it could be broken down in a step by step format and applied by other guys.
So yes, we do have an initial type, I have a ‘type’ – I know what my eyes are drawn to, there are certain guys that if they look like Christian Bale – yes, I’m going to look twice at him, that’s probably exactly my type; but, if he doesn’t have the qualities to match then I’m not interested.
Equally, I have been approached by guys who are not so good-looking, or they’re not my ‘type’ I should say – and after five minutes they’ve ran some high grade game on me and that’s it – I’m like complete putty in their hands. So yes, she might have a type – she might prefer black guys, she might prefer older guys, she might prefer white guys, rich guys, poor guys, all this is initial stuff, ok? It’s initial stuff. And you can’t let it limit you. You can’t say, “Well, that’s her type (or I’m presuming that’s her type) so I’ve got no chance.”
Nonsense. If you’ve got game, you will outmatch type any day of the week.
Myth number 4: Women want guys to agree with them.
Not the case at all. A lot of guys will bend their own reality in accordance with hers because they've been told; they've been fed this myth for long enough that you have to agree with a woman if you want to sleep with her. I can tell you now, I have never heard a woman say, “I just had to sleep with that guy because he agreed on every point that I made.”
When you start agreeing with everything she says, concealing your identity, concealing your opinions, your points of view – you go into the nice guy territory. Nice guys don’t get laid, ok? Nice guys carry shopping bags for the girl, but they don’t get laid.
And the nice guy is a very bland experience, so you’re going to stop trying to agree with everything she says unless you genuinely do agree – like you do with this video, obviously – but you’re also going to stop limiting yourself to finding commonalities. This is a big one – stop trying to work out if she likes the same things as you do, if you both like the same pizza topping, if you both like to visit the same city… irrelevant. I want you to find a connection, an emotional connection where you’re talking about your passions, you’re talking about your desires, you’re talking about the foundation of your goals, the root reasons for what you do, why you choose things – I want you to explore those; that’s a much more meaningful, stronger connection than just finding commonalities that you agree upon.
Last but not least, Myth number 5: Women want commitment.
This is slightly ambiguous, but yes – women do want commitment, but later on. A lot of guys will be like, “Ok, I am the full package, ready to go, I want a relationship. Surely she’s going to be interested now. I’m boyfriend material.”
It doesn’t work out like that. Women like to earn it, they like a challenge. So a guy that states he wants a girlfriend – it makes us feel like if we say yes, then we’re just going to be that comfortable pair of slippers he’s been longing to own for ages. We don’t want to be the comfortable pair of slippers, it could have been any girl. If he’s looking for a girlfriend, he’s just got a position open and he’s looking for it to be filled by anybody.
So it’s not very romantic. We want the guy who’s kind of open to the idea of finding a girlfriend, settling down one day – but he’s not handing it to us on a plate, we’re going to have to work for it, we’re going to have to prove it.
So please guys, do not do this, this is such a turnoff – do not sit there with a girl on date number three telling her how you want to get into a serious relationship – whether it’s with her, whether it’s directed to her, or you’re just talking about it in general; just don’t do it – because then we feel like it’s not a challenge.
And you might think this is fucking psychotic – this is what women ultimately want, why do we have to play these games? Tough shit, you do. If you don’t follow the rules, you’re not going to get a relationship. You have to make it seem, even if you're dying for a relationship – conceal it. You are one of those guys who, “Yes, one day I would like to settle down and have kids – but I’m in no rush to do that.”
That’s very attractive to a woman, it means game on, here’s a project, I’m going to get him – I want that one. We always appreciate what we have to work for more than something that’s handed to us on a plate, as you guys know.
So, they’re the five myths today. If you want to find out how you can start increasing your success rate with women, go to my website where you will find out more information about my products that I’ve created including eBooks and DVDs which cover a wide range of subjects. I hope to see you soon. Take care!
Hey guys! This is me Casey, one of the world's top female dating expert for men. How many times have you been with a girl that you like and you've decided not to pursue her or not to make a move, based on the assumption that you're just not her type? For some reason, you think or you feel that she's giving some sort of a signal that you are physically not her type. Honestly ask yourself now how many times that has happened.
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Now, of course, all our scouts just like you guys have a set type; what we look for physically and in terms of their characteristics. However, every single girl has dated, slept with, had a boyfriend who has not fit that set type at all. What she initially goes for does not necessarily mean that's what she's going to end up with.
Whenever you feel this, whenever you're talking to a girl and for some reason, you feel that you're not her type, let this come into your head ”Game On”. This sentence is so empowering, just very simple ”Game On” and this is because the game will out-match type every single time, and the game is much stronger than what the girl's initial type is. If a girl shows you lack of initial interest, she's not immediately attracted to you; instantly attracted to you as which sometimes happens. What is your reaction? Do you do what most guys do?
Most guys real quick; most guys will give up and what they'll do is they'll find excuses in order to keep that ego intact, so they'll say things often such as; she's only into white guys, she's only into black guys, she's only into rich guys, she's only into older men, she's only into younger guys, she's a lesbian or anything. You'll find an excuse often to say this is her type and I don't fit into that, so that's okay, that's fine, but the problem with this is not just only do you not get the girl that you want because you've given up and you've decided that she goes for a guy that looks nothing like you or has a social status to you or has a different job or who is richer than you or shorter than you or taller than you or different color to you. And also these kinds of excuses keep you in your comfort zone, this stops you from perfecting your game, these stop you from perfecting your technique.
You might be saying to this, if I'm not a girl's type, why should I bother, why do I need to prove myself to her, that's exactly how a guy that has no game thinks. Most guys will think that they need to somehow prove themselves if they're not the girl's initial type. However if you have game, if you have skill, if you have technique, you'll realize that she's going to have to prove herself to you, that's how it works, that's the difference, this is how the guys on my team; the pick-up coaches on my team are looking at the situation, they don't look at it as they need to prove themselves, they have to somehow be that girl's type, they have to be in line with her requirements, they switch her around. She has to prove herself to them, it's about the game, and it’s not about type.
There's something else you have to remember here; women are usually not attracted to a guy. Most women do not experience love at first sight, they might claim that was the situation, but they are just romanticizing what really happened. The truth is most girls meet a guy and they think he's okay, nothing special and suddenly something starts changing in the interaction. It could be a slow bother, it could take maybe a few days, but it usually will happen within the first hour or so. Instant attraction is extremely rare and when it does happen and it has happened to me, it fizzles out very quickly, because when you meet someone you're instantly attracted to them because they happen to be exactly your type, the problem with that is that you build them up and you expect so much from them that anything that they do that is not congruent or not in line with this idea you have of them, it's going to start sabotaging the little fantasy you've got going on there about them.
Instant attraction very rarely happens, when it does, it doesn't mean that you're going to have guaranteed success but go either and this is why all my courses; my boot camp, my 7-day courses; we never teach guys how to be a particular type. Guys who come to me, I don't teach them how to be exactly my type. I want to share something with you, I have a type, I go for a certain type of look and most of my boyfriends haven't actually ended up looking like that set type that I have in my head. In terms of characteristics, I always say that I go for very intelligent men. I like men to have strong political views, I like men to be well educated and yet I've ended up with guys that I've been so attracted to that were so stupid they could barely spell their own name. This happens all the time, so many girls will go out with an ideal set type in their mind and end up going with a guy who is nothing like that and this is because these guys have a game, they have brilliance.
This is what I do, I breakdown what those naturals did, because they were all naturals, they all had game, I break it down and I pause on this step by step format, so I never try and make a guy become my type, it's impossible; you can't be everybody's type and have a thing for a moment yourself; how many times have you met a girl and she’s been good looking, she's fitted the requirements of what you're looking for in terms of looks with a girl? And she's a nice person honestly, but you're not really attracted to her and there's a girl that you know who is not the most beautiful girl, she has unfortunately got habits or characteristics that are definitely not on your list of what you consider to be attracted, but yet you've been really attracted to her. This girl has a game, you'll put it down to having sex, having a great personality, having energy, chemistry, but the truth is she has a game; that's all it is. The game will out-match type every single time, so what I do is I teach guys how not to be a girl's type; impossible, I teach them how to perfect their game.
There's one last thing I want you to remember; when a woman does end up with a guy who is not her type, the attraction is always more intensive, it's always stronger. We love to get together and say, but he's not just my type, I don't know what I'm doing with this guy, I never go for guys like this, because then we now start to romanticize and say it must be chemistry, it's just meant to be. We'll come up with all these excuses to actually explain why we're so attracted to this guy, we won't really be able to, so instead we just use romantic excuses to why we're so attracted to him.
Remember guys; next time this happens, I want you to always think ”game on”, if there is any point where you think she might like taller guys than you, she likes richer guys, it doesn't matter, I too have a type and how many times have I gone out with my type? A few times, but I've gone out with lots of guys who are not my type and so have millions and millions of girls out there. Whenever you think she likes a richer guy initially or taller guys or a younger guy or older guy, I want you to not give up and I just want this line to come in your head ”Game On”. Guys if you want to find out how to perfect your game without changing who you are, you want to have game, you want to have techniques that can grow with your own personality; check out my Ultimate DVD in Seduction. I am sharing with you the secrets that women want you to know, why? Because with the insights, techniques, methods and skills that I am handing you in a step by step and detailed format, you will be attracting women into your bed whom you initially thought would never sleep with you.
Best Places to Meet Women Revealed
Hey guys, Today, I'm going to give you some great alternative places to meet women, which doesn't involve going to nightclubs and bars. A lot of the students who come to learn my how to meet women course say to me that they don't really want to learn how to pick up women in bars and clubs. It could be due to their age, it could be a cultural preference. Usually it has to do with the fact that they don't have many friends, who are their same age. They don't have any women and buddies that they can go out with… they don't want to go out to clubs like the Lone Ranger, the big bad wolf looking for Red Riding Hood. So we show them how they can meet women in different situations, in different environments and they're always really, really surprised at how many other options there are.
So, I'm now going to share with you five really cool places to meet women that don't involve deejays, nightclubs or loud music. The first one is coffee shops. Coffee shops are even better place to meet women than they were a few years ago. In all the major cities- L.A, New York, London where I teach my Best Places to Meet Women courses I notice like there’s something that's happening all around the world in these cities. There's a lot of entrepreneurs, young female entrepreneurs which is great news, which is fantastic news of course and they haven't got offices, they're not choosing to work from an office. They're choosing Starbucks, they`re choosing Costa Coffee, they're choosing the local cafe, they’re choosing the local coffee store to be their office and they will literally sit there, I’ve notice it, they'll sit there for like three to four hours. It's their office and they'll keep going back there and they'll have their organic coffee or whatever it is and they'll have their laptop out.
I've noticed that these girls, they get really, really intense in their work, you know they are typing away but they usually want to have a break like within 40 minutes to an hour. They need a brain rest or something. Most human beings who are working that intensely and then they are focused, they're going to want that rest and they're looking for a rest spite. And I've noticed that they start talking to people around them. It's just like a way to sort of break the pressure, to release the pressure a little bit and then they can go back to work.
I was thinking, well this is perfect. This is a perfect opportunity for guys to just get their laptop out, look at anything you want in there apart from porn obviously and just you know when you can see she's at that point it’s very noticeable. You can see she's just like, “Oh okay, you know.” Looking around maybe she's going on Facebook for a little bit, she's just having a brain rest. It's like she's in this perfect perfect zone to speak to her. And there's so many of these girls everywhere. Just walk down the street, look at the windows of all these coffee shops and you would just see all these laptops open with beautiful women huddled over them, doing their work and I’m just like “this is target rich”. These are target rich places and guys are just not using this opportunity to meet women nearly enough. So, that's one place- coffee shops, great place to meet women.
Second one, is classes. There are so many classes going on right now. You've obviously got things like salsa classes, dance classes, photography classes and such. That's a great place to meet women but also think about all these classes coming up which involve cooking classes, cookery classes, something that I really should use but don't ever see myself doing, even a sushi-making classes and it's a real bonding experience. You're literally breaking bread with each other. It's like food and you’re cooking with each other you're making food oh! It's great opportunity to flirt. Would you like to take some of mine? So, I find that classes are a great way to meet women.
Try and pick something that you genuinely want to learn about. A lot of guys do salsa class because they know they're going to meet all these like hot South American women that are there and they get to have really close body contact with them, they get to dance with them, it's great for flirting. I get it, fine do that! But try sometimes to pick something that you really want to do like a photography lesson, a photography class, learning a new language, it’s a great way to meet women. I find that the worst-case scenario from joining one of these classes is if you don't meet a woman, you usually meet a friend. Now I'm not saying you need a friend but as you know everything is interlinked, so you could meet a friend and from there you go and find a woman and you find other things in common. That's like worst-case scenario. You've learned a new skill, you've made a friend, you've made a couple of new friends. That`s like worst case so why on earth would you not want to take these lessons? What would stop you from going to these classes? A lot of people say, “Well, I've got a gym membership, that's a great place to meet women.” I don't think it is. There are ways to meet women in the gym but they are not the most effective ways. It's much more difficult than if you were in a much more lighthearted environment such as a class. People are not so serious about it. It's not so intense. They`re not doing any intense workout. They're not putting their body under so much pressure, they're enjoying it, they are enjoying learning a new skill and they usually want to meet other people also. So, classes is another fantastic way to meet women.
Third, and this is one of my favorites- art galleries and museums. Especially for the more discerning gentlemen out there who are looking for a more artistic or intellectual women. Now you might know zero about art. You might be in an exhibition and think, “I don't know what's going on here”. Then play the ignorant card go up to them and say, “You know what, this is the … I'm in the wrong place, I thought that I was going to this event. This one's really interesting but I know zero about it. Can you tell me a bit about it?” You could just use that, you could… all these props everywhere. It's like a bookstore, you've got props everywhere that you can utilize you can use. And something that we've noticed from our students who've approached women on our seven day course in the museums and art galleries is that it's really, really quick to get an instant date because they always have a cafe or somewhere that you can sit and you can chat. It always starts off where they go in they chat about the gallery and they chat about art but it just moves on very, very swiftly from there moves on very, very quickly. Art galleries museums are a great place to meet women also.
Okay, last but definitely not least, a great place to meet women is the Whole Foods or if you're living in Great Britain, it would be called Planet organic. There's a lot of these places popping up and I call these the spiritual high churches of healthy living. I see an abundance of beautiful women in there and they're in this really good mood. It's strange, okay well, it's not strange I've worked out what it is. This is like after they go to the gym, they've done that awful workout, they've purged their sins almost. And this is the treat section. This is where they get to look at all this beautiful food, all this healthy food that they can reward themselves with. So, they're in that zone, they are in that positive zone, it’s only the gym where they’re kind of looking forward to doing that workout but they're still a little bit angry because they have to get on with it and do it and it's just a horrible experience. I don't do gyms as I said it's a horrible, horrible experience. But in the Whole Foods, sometimes organic, they feel that they're unhealthy, I'm going to have my wheat germ and celery juice that cost like $10. Everyone everybody in this place is in line with my values and for me this is the biggest load of pixie dust. I think it's very, very pretentious, I think it's well marketed, I don't fall for it but who gives a shit. There is an abundance of beautiful women who are falling for it. They go there and they feel great when they're in there and they fill in there with like minded people who come in from this same source- the source of healthy living. Now there's food courts in these places and the women will painstakingly choose their treat and they'll sit down and they'll eat their food, they'll be looking at their iPhone. And I've noticed that when people are in these food courts, they talk to each other, it's very communal because they all have presume that they're coming from the same healthy living source, they've all got the same mindset. It is ghastly but it works. It`s such a great place to meet women.
So I was with a student, this is about I would say a year ago and I took him in there and he was just like “I'm not going to meet any women here, I am not even healthy”… and I’m like, they`re just going to assume that you are. That's it! You don't have to say anything yet. They're just going to assume you are and then when he went to the food court he spoke to a beautiful blonde, he sat down with her and I just remember her face, it was like a big smile and she was really happy to speak to him. And if she had seen him in like KFC or something like that coming out of KFC, she wouldn't have had such a positive response to him- that immediate positive response. So, I believe that those places and they are popping up fast everywhere, are fantastic place to meet women. Like I said, I call them “high churches of healthy living” and you're going to go in then you're going to fill those bars and you got to go to the communal area with your celery, pumpkin, juice, stroke, booster, salad or whatever it is that they eat there. You just got to be able to talk to people because it's like “yeah, another like-minded person like me, another person who’s interested in looking being feeling healthy and that's a great start. Then if they find out that you’re not like this, maybe you're just trying out for fun, doesn't matter because you've already created that connection, you've already spoken to her. Then when the whole horrible all quiet early stages is done so then you can get on to the actual fun part which is seducing.
But anyway, so that's my five top places to meet women. I have lots more secret places. Really, really cool places to meet women actually. If you want to find out what they are, you know what to do. Come on and try some of these great courses for men by clicking the link below. If you can't get out the house for whatever reason or you can't make it to London or L.A. or Texas, then make sure you look at the product section where you can find more information about a variety of different game attraction and seduction related topics that I have created for you and I hope to see you soon on one of my live events. Take care. “Alexa”
Easy and Simple Secret Tricks on How to Text a Girl
Hey guys it is Alexa and welcome to our blog. Today we are going to be giving you advice tips on how to tell if a girl actually likes you when your chatting over text. We learned more amazing tips and tricks on learning to text girls and we definitely advise you go get this ultimate texting guide for Men today. Click here to learn more on How to Text a Girl
From April Masini: So let’s say you just asked her for her number, and now you are like how am I going to handle this, how am I going to keep her interested in this conversation and everything like that? So my number one tip is honestly just be funny. Girls get contacted by bunches of guys all the time. From my experience I completely hate it when a guy contacts me and are like “hey how are you?” and then just goes on to ask me things like how my school day was. I am like I have had this conversation with like ten billion other people before.
I am not interested in this. There is nothing quirky or different with there text from anyone elses. When asked stuff like that I usually just answer their questions and sometimes I ask them something back out of politeness and they will just continue and continue to ask me questions on things that I am not interested in sharing because they are just plain ass boring.
So that is tip number one on how to text a girl, avoid being boring in a conversation by being funny. Ask them about funny things, asked them unique questions on things that they like, ask them what they’re doing maybe but not make it seem like you are interrogating them.
If you’re ever in a room with a person and you’re having a conversation, you’re not only shooting them questions, you also sometimes supposed to talk about a topic, instead of just moving on and also if you meet someone in the street don't be like “Hey, what school are you in?” “What year are you in?” “What are you going to study?” Those are questions that your family asks after they haven’t seen you in a few months or years and they are just annoying questions that you been asked so many times before.
So that’s my number one tip, avoid it being like a family reunion and annoying question just be thrown about. Something important to do is to swoop her off her feet I guess, giving her compliments on the way she looked when you saw her. Or something like that, share some things about yourself to, the conversation does not have to be completely about her, it shouldn’t be completely about you either but it’s really good to throw something about you in the mix.
Very often guys just like ask some generic questions and then they’re done and they don’t ever spontaneously start to talk about something, like “Hey I watched this series, have you ever seen it?” Then you end up talking about something that you love because as a girl is not as interesting to be telling people things all about yourself because you’ve done that before. I think it’s also very interesting for them to hear something interesting about you.
It's very important that you give her attention and that she feels flattered and everything and I feel that guys are concerned that if they talk about themselves, I feel that guys feel like they need to make the girl feel like they have the full devotion and attention and that’s not true.
First of all the girls not worth more than you, the girls worth just as much as you so even though you started the conversation, it’s definitely important that you talk about you to like, it’s is not a one-sided conversation, this very important. You can flirt with her but try not to come across as like…don’t overdo flirting, I have a video on how to flirt with the girl, so go look it up to if you want to know and something else that I would say to make things animated.
Send her like Emoji’s, maybe some little pictures, something like that and make it like an animated conversation and not an interrogation that is my number one tip. Don’t bore her because that what happens a lot because guys are afraid to think of the box and say something funny or spontaneous and just ends up being like a big interrogation.
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What is the number one problem you men face when you spot a pretty girl and want to start a conversation? It is of course ‘’what the heck do you say to her’’. What you say on first approach will make or break your chances with getting to know her, because what you say must be the perfect balance of charm, flirting-ness, intelligence, humor and must open the door for further conversation while making the woman comfortable in talking to you, (sighs) no wonder all men have problems meeting women.
Turning Numbers Into Dates – Learn The Secret To Talking To Women
So what is the best way to start a conversation with a girl, pick-up lines? No, no, no, no. A pick-up line is definitely not the best way. Pick-up lines don't work, everybody knows that; not only do they not work, they are a bright new signs stamped on your fore-head advertising your lack of words, creativity and screams boring to women.
Now then, the best way to initiate a conversation is with what a pick-up artist call ”Opinion Openers”. An opinion opener is when you ask a girl her opinion or advice on some problems; you are essentially asking her for help. This sneaky little trick works because psychologically, feeling useful and needed is one of the essentials of human life. This is also one of the secret psychological tricks pick-up artists use to seduce beautiful women.
Intrigued, curious; once you know exactly how to use ”Opinion Openers”, then you're just going to have to meet the fall out crew, don't you?
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