Best Places to Meet Women Revealed
Hey guys, Today, I'm going to give you some great alternative places to meet women, which doesn't involve going to nightclubs and bars. A lot of the students who come to learn my how to meet women course say to me that they don't really want to learn how to pick up women in bars and clubs. It could be due to their age, it could be a cultural preference. Usually it has to do with the fact that they don't have many friends, who are their same age. They don't have any women and buddies that they can go out with… they don't want to go out to clubs like the Lone Ranger, the big bad wolf looking for Red Riding Hood. So we show them how they can meet women in different situations, in different environments and they're always really, really surprised at how many other options there are.
So, I'm now going to share with you five really cool places to meet women that don't involve deejays, nightclubs or loud music. The first one is coffee shops. Coffee shops are even better place to meet women than they were a few years ago. In all the major cities- L.A, New York, London where I teach my Best Places to Meet Women courses I notice like there’s something that's happening all around the world in these cities. There's a lot of entrepreneurs, young female entrepreneurs which is great news, which is fantastic news of course and they haven't got offices, they're not choosing to work from an office. They're choosing Starbucks, they`re choosing Costa Coffee, they're choosing the local cafe, they’re choosing the local coffee store to be their office and they will literally sit there, I’ve notice it, they'll sit there for like three to four hours. It's their office and they'll keep going back there and they'll have their organic coffee or whatever it is and they'll have their laptop out.
I've noticed that these girls, they get really, really intense in their work, you know they are typing away but they usually want to have a break like within 40 minutes to an hour. They need a brain rest or something. Most human beings who are working that intensely and then they are focused, they're going to want that rest and they're looking for a rest spite. And I've noticed that they start talking to people around them. It's just like a way to sort of break the pressure, to release the pressure a little bit and then they can go back to work.
I was thinking, well this is perfect. This is a perfect opportunity for guys to just get their laptop out, look at anything you want in there apart from porn obviously and just you know when you can see she's at that point it’s very noticeable. You can see she's just like, “Oh okay, you know.” Looking around maybe she's going on Facebook for a little bit, she's just having a brain rest. It's like she's in this perfect perfect zone to speak to her. And there's so many of these girls everywhere. Just walk down the street, look at the windows of all these coffee shops and you would just see all these laptops open with beautiful women huddled over them, doing their work and I’m just like “this is target rich”. These are target rich places and guys are just not using this opportunity to meet women nearly enough. So, that's one place- coffee shops, great place to meet women.
Second one, is classes. There are so many classes going on right now. You've obviously got things like salsa classes, dance classes, photography classes and such. That's a great place to meet women but also think about all these classes coming up which involve cooking classes, cookery classes, something that I really should use but don't ever see myself doing, even a sushi-making classes and it's a real bonding experience. You're literally breaking bread with each other. It's like food and you’re cooking with each other you're making food oh! It's great opportunity to flirt. Would you like to take some of mine? So, I find that classes are a great way to meet women.
Try and pick something that you genuinely want to learn about. A lot of guys do salsa class because they know they're going to meet all these like hot South American women that are there and they get to have really close body contact with them, they get to dance with them, it's great for flirting. I get it, fine do that! But try sometimes to pick something that you really want to do like a photography lesson, a photography class, learning a new language, it’s a great way to meet women. I find that the worst-case scenario from joining one of these classes is if you don't meet a woman, you usually meet a friend. Now I'm not saying you need a friend but as you know everything is interlinked, so you could meet a friend and from there you go and find a woman and you find other things in common. That's like worst-case scenario. You've learned a new skill, you've made a friend, you've made a couple of new friends. That`s like worst case so why on earth would you not want to take these lessons? What would stop you from going to these classes? A lot of people say, “Well, I've got a gym membership, that's a great place to meet women.” I don't think it is. There are ways to meet women in the gym but they are not the most effective ways. It's much more difficult than if you were in a much more lighthearted environment such as a class. People are not so serious about it. It's not so intense. They`re not doing any intense workout. They're not putting their body under so much pressure, they're enjoying it, they are enjoying learning a new skill and they usually want to meet other people also. So, classes is another fantastic way to meet women.
Third, and this is one of my favorites- art galleries and museums. Especially for the more discerning gentlemen out there who are looking for a more artistic or intellectual women. Now you might know zero about art. You might be in an exhibition and think, “I don't know what's going on here”. Then play the ignorant card go up to them and say, “You know what, this is the … I'm in the wrong place, I thought that I was going to this event. This one's really interesting but I know zero about it. Can you tell me a bit about it?” You could just use that, you could… all these props everywhere. It's like a bookstore, you've got props everywhere that you can utilize you can use. And something that we've noticed from our students who've approached women on our seven day course in the museums and art galleries is that it's really, really quick to get an instant date because they always have a cafe or somewhere that you can sit and you can chat. It always starts off where they go in they chat about the gallery and they chat about art but it just moves on very, very swiftly from there moves on very, very quickly. Art galleries museums are a great place to meet women also.
Okay, last but definitely not least, a great place to meet women is the Whole Foods or if you're living in Great Britain, it would be called Planet organic. There's a lot of these places popping up and I call these the spiritual high churches of healthy living. I see an abundance of beautiful women in there and they're in this really good mood. It's strange, okay well, it's not strange I've worked out what it is. This is like after they go to the gym, they've done that awful workout, they've purged their sins almost. And this is the treat section. This is where they get to look at all this beautiful food, all this healthy food that they can reward themselves with. So, they're in that zone, they are in that positive zone, it’s only the gym where they’re kind of looking forward to doing that workout but they're still a little bit angry because they have to get on with it and do it and it's just a horrible experience. I don't do gyms as I said it's a horrible, horrible experience. But in the Whole Foods, sometimes organic, they feel that they're unhealthy, I'm going to have my wheat germ and celery juice that cost like $10. Everyone everybody in this place is in line with my values and for me this is the biggest load of pixie dust. I think it's very, very pretentious, I think it's well marketed, I don't fall for it but who gives a shit. There is an abundance of beautiful women who are falling for it. They go there and they feel great when they're in there and they fill in there with like minded people who come in from this same source- the source of healthy living. Now there's food courts in these places and the women will painstakingly choose their treat and they'll sit down and they'll eat their food, they'll be looking at their iPhone. And I've noticed that when people are in these food courts, they talk to each other, it's very communal because they all have presume that they're coming from the same healthy living source, they've all got the same mindset. It is ghastly but it works. It`s such a great place to meet women.
So I was with a student, this is about I would say a year ago and I took him in there and he was just like “I'm not going to meet any women here, I am not even healthy”… and I’m like, they`re just going to assume that you are. That's it! You don't have to say anything yet. They're just going to assume you are and then when he went to the food court he spoke to a beautiful blonde, he sat down with her and I just remember her face, it was like a big smile and she was really happy to speak to him. And if she had seen him in like KFC or something like that coming out of KFC, she wouldn't have had such a positive response to him- that immediate positive response. So, I believe that those places and they are popping up fast everywhere, are fantastic place to meet women. Like I said, I call them “high churches of healthy living” and you're going to go in then you're going to fill those bars and you got to go to the communal area with your celery, pumpkin, juice, stroke, booster, salad or whatever it is that they eat there. You just got to be able to talk to people because it's like “yeah, another like-minded person like me, another person who’s interested in looking being feeling healthy and that's a great start. Then if they find out that you’re not like this, maybe you're just trying out for fun, doesn't matter because you've already created that connection, you've already spoken to her. Then when the whole horrible all quiet early stages is done so then you can get on to the actual fun part which is seducing.
But anyway, so that's my five top places to meet women. I have lots more secret places. Really, really cool places to meet women actually. If you want to find out what they are, you know what to do. Come on and try some of these great courses for men by clicking the link below. If you can't get out the house for whatever reason or you can't make it to London or L.A. or Texas, then make sure you look at the product section where you can find more information about a variety of different game attraction and seduction related topics that I have created for you and I hope to see you soon on one of my live events. Take care. “Alexa”